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    Hungry Healthy Happy » Blog

    Before 40 Bucket List

    Published: Jan 8, 2014 · Modified: Aug 23, 2023 · Written by Dannii Martin · This post may contain affiliate links · 85 Comments

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    40 seems like an age where we should have experienced things, lived a little, and have all the stories to tell. So, I am setting myself a before 40 bucket list to make sure that when I turn 40 I don't stress about it, but instead think I have had a pretty good life.

    Hopefully my list will give you some inspiration for some things to add to your own things to do before 40. Here is my Before 40 Bucket List.

    A collage of things to do from a before 40 bucket list.

    Before 40 Bucket List

    (or 30, 50, 60 etc. Set your own time frame)

    This was first posted in 2014 and I update it as I complete more things

    Travel, family, every day adventures, business and fitness goals all make up my before 40 bucket list.  Having goals gives me something to aim towards and makes choosing holiday destinations a little easier too.

    As I approach 40, I am thinking more about everything I have been lucky enough to do and all the things I still want to do. I like to think I have led a pretty fun live. I have travelled to many places most people only dream of, and I have achieved some things that I never thought I would, but there are always other things to tick off the list.

    Things to do before 40:

    1) See the Northern Lights ✓

    We were lucky enough to see the northern lights when we were in Iceland last year. The first night we went out looking for them it was too cloudy, but the second night the clouds broke and behind them were streaks of green and blue of the Northern Lights.

    The lights didn't bounce across the sky like you are led to believe, but it was still the most magical thing I have ever seen, even though it was FREEZING!

    The Northern Lights in Iceland.

    2) Do 10 different ziplines

    The photo above was from my first zip lining experience in Mexico. I did it upside down. We have only done two so far (or 3 if you count a mini one at a children's farm), but the ones in Mexico and Jamaica were pretty epic. The next on the list is the longest zip wire in the U.K.

    3) Order everything off the menu at a restaurant (it will be a small menu)

    4) Celebrate New Year's Eve in a different country

    5) Speak Spanish to a good standard

    6) Buy a house abroad

    7) Do a Tough Mudder event

    8) Eat at 5 out of the best 100 restaurants in the world

    9) Eat at 20 of the best restaurants in the UK

    10) Enjoy a bottle of wine that costs more than £50

    11) Run a 5km (if I stop getting injured) ✓

    I ran my first 5km race at the Race For Life. It wasn't the best one to start with, as there were lots of hills and it was an emotional day raising money for a cancer charity, but it was a great day and I got a personal best too.

    Woman standing by a barrier at Manchester's Race for Life.

    12) Go wild swimming ✓

    13) Go on safari (preferably to South Africa).

    14) Publish a book ✓

    In January 2016, Hungry Healthy Happy the book was published. It was one of the most difficult and most rewarding things I have done. To see your recipes in print is so strange. Thanks to everyone that has bought a copy. If you haven't, it's available in all good book stores and on Amazon.

    The Hungry Healthy Happy book cover

    Then, in 2018 my second book was published. It's called The Healthy Slow Cooker and is full of 100 recipes that show the slow cooker is more than just meat stews. Nachos, burritos, chai lattes, lean beef curries, mac and cheese - they can all be done in the slow cooker. Head over to Amazon to order a copy!

    15) See all 50 states

    So far I have been to 31. It would have been more after my trip a couple of years ago, but I had to cut my trip short due to illness. You can read about my various US trips below, in number 35.

    16) Travel across part of Europe by train.

    17) Break a habit

    18) Read a book in one sitting

    19) Visit every continent

    This one might take the next 5 years, but 4 down (Europe, North America, Africa and Asia), 3 to go. Antarctica may be tricky though!

    20) Go on a skiing holiday with friends

    21)  Sing at an open mic night

    22) Be able to do an unassisted pull-up

    23) Have a signature dish ✓

    My signature dish is a fridge raid pasta. I have a skill for taking ingredients that are on their way out and making them into a tasty and comforting pasta dish. No waste and a delicious meal. Why not have a look at all the HHH recipes?

    A plate of leftover chicken pasta next to a blue towel.

    24) Go for high tea ✓

    My friend, Claire, took me for high tea on my 30th birthday when she saw that it was on my Bucket List.

    High tea with sandwiches, cakes and champagne.

    25) Start a retirement fund ✓

    We have a savings account now, if that counts.

    26) Watch IMDB's top 100 films

    I've only watched 49 of them so far, so this might take a while to complete! And, it's changing all the time, which makes it harder!

    27) Go on a road trip around Scotland ✓

    In 2019 we travelled around the Argyll and Bute area of Scotland. Absolutely beautiful.

    28) Be debt free (apart from a mortgage)

    29) Do the Three Peaks Challenge

    30) Go to a drive-in movie theatre

    31) Climb a mountain ✓

    In February 2023, I climbed over 3,000ft (over 900 meters) up the Mountain of St John in Kotor, Montenegro.

    32) Go on the longest zipwire in the UK

    33) Shower in a waterfall

    A waterfall in a tree lined valley.

    35) Go on road trip across the states ✓

    In 2008, I spent 2 weeks travelling with my dad by car through New England, visiting Massachusetts, Connecticut, Rhode Island, New Hampshire, Maine, New York State, Pennsylvania, New Jersey and back into New York (Manhattan).
    My dad then flew home and I carried on across the States for another 8 weeks, visiting Maryland, Florida, Illinois, Washington State, Oregon, California, Nevada and Hawaii.

    A year later I returned with a friend and travelled by train from New York to California via Illinois, going through Virginia, West Virginia, Kentucky, Ohio, Indiana, Iowa, Missouri, Kansas, Colorado, New Mexico and Arizona.

    In 2015 I returned again and visited New York, Tennessee, Mississippi, Louisiana, Texas and Nevada.

    People stood looking at the Chicago Bean.
    The Golden Gate Bridge in the fog.
    Looking up at a skyscraper in New York.
    People outside the entrance of Graceland in Memphis.

    37) Island hop round Greece ✓

    We did this in 2016 as our "babymoon" and it was one of the best holidays we have ever had. Starting in Athens, we then went to Mykonos, Ios and Santorini. We should have gone to Paros and Antiparos too, but we got stuck in Mykonos due to a transport strike.

    The parthenon at the Acropolis in Athens.
    A sunset over rocks and a ship on the horizon.

    38) See the New Wonders of the World

    I've seen the Colosseum in Rome, so just the Great Wall of China; Petra in Jordan; Chichen Itza in Mexico; Machu Picchu in Peru; The Taj Mahal in India and Christ The Redeemer in Brazil to go!

    39) Sleep in a haunted house

    40) Celebrate St Patrick's day in Ireland

    41) Fly 1st class

    42) Feed an elephant ✓

    We did this in Thailand and it was incredible. I am hugely against animal tourism and riding elephants in places like Thailand. You can go to animal recuse centres, where animals are rescued from places where tourists ride them and they are abused. It was so sad, but amazing to see them now so happy.

    We got to feed them, wash them and play with them in the water. That's so much better than just sitting on them whilst they are prodded to move.

    An elephant using its trunk to take some watermelon out of someone's hand.

    44) Stand-up paddle boarding ✓

    I did this in Thailand too. It was my birthday on the island of Koh Samui and we hired a paddle board for the afternoon and I paddled up and down the coast. It was much easier than I thought it was going to be and I didn't fall off once.

    A woman taking a selfie while stood on a Paddle Board.

    45) See the sunset in Santorini ✓

    Santorini is famous of its sunsets and they didn't disappoint. The only trouble is, everyone wants to see them and the look out points are packed with hundreds and hundreds of people. Luckily we had our own hot tub on a balcony that looked straight over the sunset. Bliss!

    A sunset over the Aegean Sea viewed from Santorini.

    46) Read a life changing book

    47) Meet a penguin

    48) Take a hot air balloon ride

    49) Learn to drive ✓

    I passed my driving test on the first attempt in October 2020.

    50) Meet an alpaca ✓

    I am alpaca obsessed. One day, on our way to visit Dave's mum, he surprised me with a trip to an alpaca farm where we got to feed them. They are such hilarious animals and very slobbery too - hence the expression on my face!

    A brown alpaca eating food from a woman's hand. She looks shocked!

    51) Ride a Segway ✓

    We did this in Rome and unlike paddle boarding, this was much harder than I thought it would be. My balance is not great and I was all over the place. I nearly drove into a police car on a roundabout.

    A woman riding a Segway with a city skyline in the background.

    52) Complete a triathlon

    53) See Foo Fighters in concert

    54) Go white water rafting ✓

    I did this in The Alps and it was terrifying, but in the best possible way. I didn't fall in the water, but I felt like I was going to fly out of the raft many times. Definitely one for strong swimmers.

    A woman in a wetsuit stood next to a raft on a river bank.

    55) Have a baby ✓

    In November 2016, we welcomed our beautiful daughter Avery into the world, and in 2019, our son Ziggy was born.

    There is still so many things I want to do, but I love that I will now get to do most of them with our kids, or with them watching - hopefully giving them inspiration for their own lists.

    A laughing baby laying on the grass.
    A baby sat in a high chair with a mixing bowl, wooden spoon and rolling pin

    56) Rent an apartment abroad for a month or two.

    57) Go on a digital detox ✓

    58) Go on a spa day and pamper myself

    59) Spend at least 50 nights camping/glamping (in total - not all in one go) ✓

    Seven festivals and countless camping trips have made this target quite easy.

    60) Go to 10 Festivals

    Camp Bestival x5
    Download x1
    Big Feastival x1
    Geronimo Festival x1
    Great British Rhythm & Blues Festival x1

    61) Explore the North East coast of England

    62) Host a themed party. Maybe this could be done for my 40th?

    63) Be comfortable spending time by myself. This is a hard one and something I am always working on. Learning to love myself, and enjoy spending time by myself. Sometimes I miss solo travel - going out to dinner by myself with a book.

    64) Have a photoshoot - I guess this will come when I feel really comfortable with who I am. I have desperately been needing some work photos for years and it's time to get this done. I would love a nice photoshoot with my kids too.

    65) Have a total wardrobe clear out. My style has changed so much over the years, especially since having kids. I am not even sure what my style is anymore, so it's time to sort that out and have a capsule wardrobe.

    66) Yoga and mediation every day. By the time I get to 40, I want this to be a part of my daily routine. Because I want to do it, not because I feel like I have to.

    67) Invest - I feel like this is a grown up thing to do and have some kind of investments.

    69) Attend a Peloton class and do a live workout.

    I hope this list has inspired you to create your own bucket list. What is on your bucket list? Maybe some of the same things as me. Let me know and give me some inspiration for things to add to this.

    Take a look at my Autumn Bucket List and Summer Bucket List.

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    Comments

    1. Father Fitness

      April 18, 2017 at 2:27 pm

      Great post Dannii, I'm 38 this year and I've been spending a bit of time lately reflecting on what I've done and what I'd like to achieve this year. One of them is actually the Northern Lights! As a keen hobby photographer, I'd love to see them and they're visible sometimes where I live in the North East of England. I've downloaded an app which will hopefully increase my chances of seeing them! Good luck!

      Reply
    2. [email protected]

      April 18, 2017 at 12:35 pm

      I love reading people's bucket lists Dannii! :-)

      Lynne and I are currently working out way through ours too having just scored Hawaii and San Francisco off the list (which I would seriously recommend!).

      Next on the bucket list for us is climbing Kilimanjaro next year. Cannot wait!!

      Reply
    3. [email protected]

      August 01, 2014 at 7:16 pm

      I'm a complete list maker dork. I have a general bucket list, a yearly bucket list, and a list of things I wanted to do before I moved to England (not moving now, but still doing it anyways).

      If you ever come to the states, specifically Texas, look me up. I'm already going to be taking around a Brit to different parts of Texas and the US when he moves here. I can easily add you in the mix.

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      • Dannii

        August 02, 2014 at 5:49 pm

        We are going to be driving through the Texas and making lots of stops along the way, so yes! I would love for you to show me around :)

        Reply
    4. Barefoot Mahala

      May 27, 2014 at 7:02 pm

      hmn, it's a bit late for me to start a Before 40 Bucket List (unless it was *very* short and *very* easy - I'm 40 in 2 weeks!), but I have been thinking about this a lot recently. I saw another blogger was doing the 101 things in 1001 days challenge and I think I might give that a go. My first challenge will be deciding what makes the list! I think 8 or 9 of yours would also be on my list. I can see a zipline theme in your list!

      Reply
      • Dannii

        May 28, 2014 at 12:35 pm

        That's a great idea - I might need to do that too. haha, yes, there is a bit of a ziplining theme there.

        Reply
    5. Deena Kakaya

      May 24, 2014 at 11:19 pm

      Your list is full of joy and energy and I wish you loads more of it x

      Reply
      • Dannii

        May 27, 2014 at 1:24 pm

        Thanks :)

        Reply
    6. Mary

      May 24, 2014 at 11:04 am

      Oooo, you have an awesome list of things to do!
      I've got a bucket list, and I'm going to add some of your items to that list now such as 'do an unassisted pull-up'!
      Go to a drive-in movie was on my bucket list, and I've seen a couple now. Peterborough town put on a movie each Summer. The last one I went to was Grease. There was a huge blowup screen infront of the cars and we had to tune our car radio in for the audio. Loads of people dressed up and it was a fab atmosphere!

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      • Dannii

        May 27, 2014 at 1:25 pm

        That sounds amazing. I really wish that we had something like that here.

        Reply
    7. Jessica

      May 23, 2014 at 5:20 am

      Fabulous bucket list, of course my favourite one on their is get a pug. How can people not love pugs?!

      I hope you managed to achieve your goals :)

      Reply
      • Dannii

        May 23, 2014 at 10:58 am

        They are so adorable.

        Reply
    8. Deena kakaya

      May 22, 2014 at 3:01 pm

      Your list is bursting with life and excitement! Happy happy happy x

      Reply
      • Dannii

        May 22, 2014 at 7:59 pm

        It should be a good list to tick off.

        Reply
    9. Anna @AnnaTheApple

      May 22, 2014 at 1:36 pm

      My god that's quite a list! And fairly expensive one at that to get to those different countries hehe. I think my bucket list will probably extend until death (morbid, sorry) as there's so much I want to do but I know I won't get it done quickly.
      I like your "Meet a penguin" - not "see" a penguin, but genuinely meet one :)

      Reply
      • Dannii

        May 22, 2014 at 8:01 pm

        Haha yes, well, I have seen penguins before, but I want to stand next to one. Chester Zoo has "penguin experiences" and I would love to do that.

        Reply
    10. Jane

      May 22, 2014 at 10:32 am

      It looks like you are going to spend the next 10 years travelling - how fun. I look forward to reading all about it. My daughter is wanting to go travelling when she finishes uni, so she is already saving for that. She is also trying to lose weight, so I have been sharing your recipes with her.

      Reply
      • Dannii

        May 22, 2014 at 11:33 am

        Thank you for sharing my recipes :)

        Reply
    11. Mark

      May 22, 2014 at 10:31 am

      Great list! It is very similar to mine actually, although a big one on mine is to see the World Cup live. It would be this year, but maybe in a few years time I will go.

      Reply
      • Dannii

        May 22, 2014 at 11:34 am

        That is something that my husband really wants to do too. To see England win would be even better!

        Reply
    12. Bex

      May 22, 2014 at 10:30 am

      The beach photo is breathtaking. I wish I was somewhere like that now, it is so grey and cold here today.

      Reply
      • Dannii

        May 22, 2014 at 11:34 am

        It is a horrible day today, isn't it. Makes me wish I was on the beach.

        Reply
    13. Nisha

      May 22, 2014 at 9:34 am

      Your list is a great mixture of big and little things to do.. There are so many things I always think "oh I'd love to do that" and this post has inspired me to write them down so I can actually start ticking them off! x

      Reply
      • Dannii

        May 22, 2014 at 11:34 am

        You should write them down, it is more motivation to do them that way.

        Reply
    14. Bintu @ Recipes From A Pantry

      May 22, 2014 at 8:55 am

      Huge and fun list. I don't dare make one as it would run into q 1000 things to do. And yes I agree with one of the commenters below. Do as much as you can before children.

      Reply
      • Dannii

        May 22, 2014 at 11:35 am

        As long as most of them were fairly easy, 1000 is not too many things to do.

        Reply
    15. Jemma @ Celery and Cupcakes

      May 22, 2014 at 7:42 am

      Awesome list! I don't actually have a bucket list, maybe I should make one as there is a lot that I would like to see in the world. It would be nice to see it all paper to start making plans.

      Reply
      • Dannii

        May 22, 2014 at 11:35 am

        Definitely write them down - it is a good reminder.

        Reply
    16. Maria @ runningcupcake

      May 21, 2014 at 10:27 pm

      I would love to see the Northern Lights too. A while ago they were visible in the UK and so at about 11pm I was wandering around my housing estate trying to see them, but there was too much ambient light I think.
      I would also love to go to New Zealand, and see a wild penguin (can do them both at the same time), but that will have to wait a while I think.
      I love that you put buy a house abroad as more realistic than buying a porche- I have no idea but I would have thought that a new car was more realistic! You have to aim high though.
      One of my friends has a bucket list of things to do before she is 30 (this summer now) but it was easier things like go to a safari park (eg Woburn), go to a little chef, go to Bath, go to a drive in movie. Some of your items are massive! Have fun ticking them off!

      Reply
      • Dannii

        May 22, 2014 at 11:37 am

        I guess that buying a house abroad is more realistic for us, because we are not buying a house in the UK. The house abroad isn't going to be our second home, we have plans to live abroad in the near future :)

        Reply
    17. Nayna Kanabar (@citrusspiceuk)

      May 21, 2014 at 9:41 pm

      What fantastic list I hope you get to achieve all of t or at least most of it by the time you are 40.

      Reply
      • Dannii

        May 22, 2014 at 11:37 am

        Thank you!

        Reply
    18. Janie

      May 21, 2014 at 9:08 pm

      Do you know, I often hear myself saying that something is on my bucket list, but I've never actually written any of them down. Hmm.
      I do want to to visit Canada with Jonny & canoe down the biggest river we can find, sleeping on the river banks & avoiding the bears :)
      Must start writing them down...
      Janie x

      Reply
      • Dannii

        May 22, 2014 at 11:37 am

        That sounds amazing. Haha, yes - avoiding bears is a very good thing to do. They are so cute though.

        Reply
    19. Nicole

      May 21, 2014 at 8:27 pm

      The main thing on my bucket list is to visit Thailand. Just something I have always wanted to do.

      Reply
      • Dannii

        May 22, 2014 at 11:37 am

        I would love to go to.

        Reply
    20. Charlotte

      May 21, 2014 at 8:26 pm

      The next 10 years looks like one big adventure for you. I look forward to following it on your blog. I have just subscribed :)

      Reply
      • Dannii

        May 22, 2014 at 11:38 am

        Thanks for subscribing.

        Reply
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